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David
68 Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, Mexico
Seeking: Female 40 - 56
Star sign: Aquarius
I’m a Producer/Director/Writer/Screen Writer/Actor for Theatre/Film/TV, or was, among so many other things, back in the San Francisco Bay Area. No, I'm not famous and I don't expect to be...but, hey, it can happen! I've written several screenplays and my first one is now a movie in distribution. I’ve been living in Puerto Vallarta since July 2011. I speak English, but would love to learn to speak Spanish. You may find this all a bit forward or strongly worded. I prefer to think of is as complete. I’ve taken all the self-awareness tests they offer on many of these sites. They were all very useful. I learned from them. From them I learned these things about myself. I’ve read too often, looking at what many men post in their profiles, like “you must be no taller (shorter) than… and have a bust size of …” It’s kind of creepy. I’m just looking for someone who likes me exactly as I am right now, and I will like her exactly as she is too. It’s a very healthy, happy feeling when you have that in a relationship. So, with this long dissertation, I’m hoping to clearly define who I am, what I think, and how I think, so that someone among you will think, “Hmm, I’d like to meet this guy, as described.” Just to be clear; I‘ve been meeting women who think dating is the basis for developing more friendships. Actually, being friendly is the basis for friendship. If you’re “new to the dating scene,” then please know that dating, at least for me, is about actively looking to build a romantic relationship, in my case, a long-term (maybe, last-term) romantic relationship, here in Mexico, especially, or hopefully in PV. I have relocated for love in the past. I could again. I “go out” with my friend Kevin, or my friend Kathy…but we don’t go out on dates. When you go out on an initial ‘coffee date’ in reply to a posting like this, I hope it’s to determine if you want continue with a next date, and then another date, and so on, until you decide to build a romantic, loving relationship or not, and either outcome is perfectly ok. In fact, that’s the whole idea. Dating to find friends is disappointing and misleading. Want new friends? Be friendly. Start talking to the people around you; your neighbors, your work mates, the people you see every day …just start to engage them and you will find plenty of friends you won’t have to get all dressed up for. So, I’ve written this post to find a likeminded person interested in a relationship, ultimately, a complete romantic, life changing, loving, long-term relationship. I already have many, many wonderful friends, male and female, here in PV, and back in New York, California, Washington State, and elsewhere. That said, here comes politics and religion. Though it sounds a bit rant-like, I'm not out to change the world or you. It's just what i believe. My politics are to the left. I’m not a liberal nut case, but I do believe that, to act as a responsible human being, requires that you act responsibly to all other humans and to the world you live in. For this reason, I believe the U.S. health care system is a greed based, irresponsible, if not morally bankrupt, system. I also believe that the Republican Party is corrupt to the core…they care not one jot for people. They claim they know how to make money, but all they do is take money. I was once a registered Republican, but now they lie with such impunity and unfaltering unity, that I find them disgusting, and all their members, and I mean all of them, down to the creationist creeps and up to the money changers at the top, are either equally corrupt, or very stupid. Theologically, I believe there is only one reason to do Good; it is because doing Good is good to do. The world is full of good people who do good, and evil people who do evil, but getting good people to do evil requires religion. Rationality is my religion; justice, acceptance, and reason are my gospels. I’m I disapprove of abortion in my life, but I will bear arms to defend any woman’s right to choose for herself; I mean, if I weren’t for supporting gun control. I don’t believe in an omnipotent, pedophilic, invisible uber-being from outer space, and I think that angels, crystal powers, psychic/astrological/mystical time, space, and thought manipulations, including the ‘Secret’ and its central-power-of-the-universe clearing house system, are all utter nonsense; they are the excuses the weak use to escape blame for their own poor judgment and low self-esteem. Religions, and other made up alternative dogma, are the lazy man’s way of avoiding personal responsibility for his own creations. Your only real, personal, lord and savior, is you. Yet, there is something to be said about the laying of the hands that can cause …well, you know. By now you’ve guessed, “Yes, he’s definitely an atheist.” I know that my personal sense of morality is not based on the selfish greed for eternal reward or fear of eternal punishment, but is actually an innate element of living as a natural human being, as part of the social consciousness within which we have all evolved. As with all life on earth, I think we’re an electro-chemical process and, as all such processes do, we emit energy, we radiate, and can, therefore receive, read or sense, and react to the radiated fields of others. It may be, that when you are in the field of another, and it feels good, that that is the ‘chemistry’ we are looking for. So, I do believe in the stream of levels of the persona… from our own ultra-conscience down to the intellect operating in each of our cells, but I see no need to appraise them as spiritual. I think that from all this we create our own identity, the ‘character in charge’ that we present to the world, and that it is possible to review, repair, or update that identity. (i.e. Self improvement is possible and I do my best to do that.) I believe nothing in nature is not from nature. There is no reason to expect that anything in nature be of a super-nature. And so, my point is, please be an atheist. You don't have to be one of those ranting, hateful types...they seem to be no less "dogmatic" than their loony opposites. Just note that if you are among the superstitious, it will eventually grate you that you know I think such beliefs are silly. That’s just the way it is. Yet, I do love Christmas. I even have my own handmade nativity set (from my Mom) which I’ve liked to view on Holiday morns, and tickle the baby’s tummy, rhetorically cooing, “Who’s a good little god. Huh? Who’s a good little god.” (Use long ooo’s in the word good. It makes it more fun.) I think the entire world should spend a short season each year to share some love and gifts with each other. I’m an energetic 61. Am I fit? If you mean wrestle a bear to the ground...yea, I'm fit. If you mean skinny jogger type, then... no, that's not me. I weight train. I'm solid, but lightly padded; 5’10, 204Lbs, 52” chest, 36” waist, and 16” biceps, if that means anything to you. As is everything else I am saying, this is a true statement: I’m always judged to be 45 in my appearance. I’ve had to show my DL many times to prove my age. I look that age. I live that age. I love at that age, but with far more knowledge and awareness. I’ll say it's my brain and my heart that you will learn to love. We may, or may not, strike a flame, but I’ll be intrigued by your thoughts and would like to meet your mind. As for you, be healthy and care for yourself and your appearance. Cleanliness is next to… well, you know. Within the realm of rational, you can be almost any age, tall, short, skinny or not, I don’t care. Just be aware, and full of fun, and full of enough energy, stamina, and willingness to try to keep up. I’ll never leave you behind and I’ll ask you do the same for me. Because I love the ancient Greeks, I think we should agree on this: Eros and Agape, (Sex and its twin, Unconditional Love) are so much more amazing when conjoined. Though we may be slowly approaching the final resting place of the souls of the heroic and virtuous, we will not view that ‘eternal plain’ as our goal, but rather, that it is the very last damn thing we must do, enjoying every single step and luscious moment along the way, till there are none left but the one. If you understand this, then we should really talk... I like you a lot already. We’ll learn much from each other. I really do want a real, long-term, loving relationship. That doesn’t mean I want a “let’s get married right now,” live-in relationship. In fact, I’m really not interested in ‘getting married’ in the legal, entangled, paperwork sense of it. I believe whatever you have created in your life is yours, and I want no part of your stuff or property. I just need to know who my other half is, and when and where we will get together for the things we need and want from each other, and for each other. I’m looking for someone who knows and loves herself as much as I will... and I will. You must enjoy PDA, long, warm, heart-felt kisses, and can make and maintain a deep connection of the body, mind and spirit. If you are aware of your ultimate Sexual self, or want to be, we’ll have more fun than ever. There should be room in our intimacy for joy and real exploration and exchange. I’ll shower with you, wash you, hold you close under the flow of warm water, caress you and love you…every single day. We’ll sleep the whole night in each other’s arms and wake with your head on my shoulder, your breath on my cheek; ourselves entangled, head to toe. This is the love and tenderness I’ll love to share with you. I will also share all duties. I cook well. I clean thoroughly, though not at all a neat freak. I do laundry, I take out the garbage, sweep, mop, and do dishes. I garden under guidance, though your plants’ lives may be at risk. I just don’t keep a scorecard. If it needs to be done, it should get done. Of course, I currently live as a bachelor, so my home-alone standards do slip as other projects take focus from time to time. …OK, most of the time. If you prefer something being done a certain way, and I don’t have any ‘druthers about it, then we’ll do it your way. I expect the same respect in return. If the above describes how you would love to be loved, how you would love to love another, and you know that you are actually able to accept and give this love, then you are who I’m looking for…we could be a very good match. I’m a true, in the flesh, romantic man. I mean every word you see here. If you’ve read the book “Attachment,” I test out as a Stable, but an Avoidant would see it as a possible anxious personality, because Stables like to please their lovers. I won’t set out to make your happiness my life’s goal, but you will find that I am the easiest guy in the world to get along with. I do my very best to think before I react. I approach all issues with the goal of understanding, first, then seeing what makes sense to get back to happiness. I’m not into any spectator sports; what a small group of hyperthyroid men do to each other in the middle of a grassy knoll is of little interest to me. I’m an open book, easy to read, and I’m comprised of many, many chapters. You will enjoy turning the pages. The attached picture is from a painting "The Kiss," my favorite painting in all the world. It is the perfect example of how a kiss should begin. By the way, I’m as straight as an arrow and all man. I’m totally unattached and have absolutely no lingering emotional baggage. I’m not bi-Sexual, but if you are, so be it. I don’t judge, neither do I reject. My love comes with my full acceptance of who you are. If you reveal your true self to me, I will never ask you to change. You’ll have all the space and support you’ll need to be exactly yourself. I want the same for myself as well. I’m not a couch potato, but I do stay in now and then, so if your idea of a good time at home would be to catch a buzz and feature on my video projector, then we stand a good chance of having a lot of fun just being at home together. I’m 420 friendly, but I’m not an abuser. I like Tullamore Dew, but will accept Bushmill’s. I’ve taken a fancy to Tequila on the rocks since living here. I believe in all of these in moderation in my partner and myself. I have never struck a woman in anger, and I never will. I want to travel with you, lightweight, hostel style. I have a 22 year old Chevy van, modified with a full size bed for camping style fun, touring around Mexico. Of course, I won’t object to 5-Star accommodations, but they’re not in my budget. If they’re within your budget, well that’s ok, but please know it’s not something that I can afford to keep up with. In fact, if you need 3 suitcases, 4 pairs of shoes, and a giant sack of hair product and makeup, just to get away for the weekend, then you should rethink this. I’d like, at times, to decide together that we should rent a furnished apartment in some off the beaten path part of Europe, Asia, or South America, and actually ‘live there,’ immersed in the culture, for 3 to 6 months, then come back to our base in PV or elsewhere. You should be a mid- to tough traveler. Can you bear to fly stand-by? How’s your real-life spontaneity and flexibility? Life is too short to waste dreaming about things and places… just figure it out as best you can and do it. I’ve learned that from my son. He’s brilliant. One last important point; as I explained, I’m an artist type… a bohemian, identified as a true renaissance man, in fact. I have an adequate, and consistent income that meets my needs, which I sometimes supplement with my art. I do a lot of free favors for a lot of people. From personal counseling to hard labor; I love it. Though some may question my motives, I do them because it feels good to do them; because doing good is good to do. Oh, but I do find I am invited to more pool parties these days. If you consider any of this at all, please consider all of it very carefully. Life at our stage is growing shorter, faster, by every day. We have all the time there is, but it’s all the time we have. Neither of us should waste the precious time of the other. We should be painfully earnest with each other and with our self. I know this will not appeal, at all, to the vast majority of you women out there, but I have no interest in most of you for a life partner either. I'm just looking for one of you. You must know if it is you. What I mean is, don’t wish it was you, or think that it might be you, or could be you. Please know it is you; that this is who you already are; the kind of person that would really like to meet, and maybe love, a guy like me. I prefer to chat by phone and/or over coffee/tea/wine/tequila. If you enjoyed reading this, you know too, that it's pretty easy to write brilliant emails that delve the depths of our philosophical realms, but I find genuine two-way conversation is so much more fulfilling, and informative. If you want to chat, send a note and a recent pic. I would like to see who I'm chatting with. I have Skype with Video. My contact info will follow. I certainly would like to know more about you. I know this is a very ridiculously long read. Thanks for making the effort. It’s a good sign that you’re willing to work for what you seek. Hope to hear from you soon. Coolness ensues.

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