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Wilbur
78 • San Miguel de Allende, Guanajuato, Mexico
Seeking: Female 58 - 70
Religion: No religion
Hombre romántico y viejo buscando relaciones a tie
Soy un profesor retirado, buscando el último gran amor de mi vida. Soy inteligente, romántico, atento, amoroso, amable y generoso, y amo la buena conversación, y deseo amor en mi vida. Vivo en Denver, Colorado, USA, y estoy considerando retirarme a M
Charlie
59 • Tijuana, Baja California, Mexico
Seeking: Female 35 - 45
Religion: No religion
Con Altura!
Soy estadounidense de Nueva York. He vivido en Tijuana por 2 años. Mi español está mejorando, pero necesito usar una aplicación de traductor. Soy fotógrafo y profesor de escuela. Me gustaría encontrar a alguien que quisiera ir a eventos culturales co
Gaadiel
21 • Mérida, Yucatán, Mexico
Seeking: Female 20 - 60
Religion: No religion
Lo descubriremos
I am a college student, I like experimental sciences. Completely self contained from quite a small, I am loving, cheerful and I love watching the sky at sunset, or the stars at dusk. Really very mature for my age, and I keep many interesting things, that's why I look for something different.
David
59 • San Lucas, Baja California Sur, Mexico
Seeking: Female 25 - 60
Religion: No religion
Winters in Cabo & summers in Seattle
I recently retired as corp executive. Will now focus on smaller private businesses while enjoying life! I traveled often on business and had little opportunity to meet someone in the traditional way, so... Trying this :) I now own homes in Bellevue WA USA and Cabo Mexico and split time between them in long term transition to retirement. Join me? I enjoy great food, great wine, great company, travel and running/hiking. Fitness is important ... Life is a Marathon not a sprint.
Dan
36 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 21 - 37
Religion: No religion
Hey
Escritor británico, he vivido por muchos lados pero ya soy de México aunque sé que nunca me aceptará. Interéses: Literatura; free-thought; estar afuera; humor obsidiano; pol-fil-ci-hist; la ironía; la nobleza, belleza y gracia de cada humano, incluy. los pendejos; ser medio scruffy; la Dialéctica; tener las manos sucias de tierra; mus.rock; Nabokov; Mindfulness; Internacionalismo. Orgullo: Hay una especie de serpiente oficialmente nombrado en mi honor (platyceps noeli). Está chingona
Wood
55 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 28 - 53
Religion: No religion
Tall athletic traveler seeking...
Separated a year ago, trying to maintain being friends... was married 20 years to a Chilanga, lived in DF for some years... my Spanish is not great but I am studying once again. I live in Houston part time, San Diego part time, and travel the rest of the time... I have family in DF so I am frequently there.
Lenny
68 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 42 - 59
Religion: No religion
Worldly Professor
Profesor universitario, doctor en filosofía y bioquímica (autor de What Genes Can't Do), recientemente reubicado en CDMX, aprendiendo español, buen comunicador, cocinero inventivo, viajero entusiasta e intrépido, amante de las artes, compañero honesto y dedicado University professor, PhD's in philosophy and biochemistry (author of What Genes Can't Do), recently relocated to CDMX, learning español, good communicator, inventive cook, eager and intrepid traveler, lover of the arts, honest and dedicated compañero.
Trevor
47 • Playa del Carmen, Quintana Roo, Mexico
Seeking: Female 18 - 46
Religion: No religion
I'm 45 male looking to see what's our there
Its been a while since I have dated so I'm a lil rusty lol my longest relationship was over 10 years. And I have just moved to Playa Del Carmen and yes I will make the off trip back to Canada from time to time for a week maybe 2 but this is my home now. So I'm looking to make a life for myself here and hopefully find a lady to share my time with NOT looking for a one night stand. What I'm looking for is the rest of my life
Craig
47 • Playa del Carmen, Quintana Roo, Mexico
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
Religion: No religion
Looking for Real Love 🥰
Hola :) My name is Craig and I'm here to meet a nice girl for a long loving relationship. I'm not here for games or hookups, just true love. I am an Australian man now living in Playa Del Carmen Mexico. I moved from San Diego California where my business is located and I fly between Mexico and America for business. If you are looking for the same thing please message me so we can chat and know each other. I hope we can chat soon :) I only message girls with good photos including your face.
Oscar
27 • Zapopan, Jalisco, Mexico
Seeking: Female 21 - 28
Religion: No religion
Student
I'm from Phoenix, Arizona finishing up my degree in Guadalajara Mexico. My degree is Computer Science and I'm almost done :) My interests involve animals, anime, cooking, video games, riding my bike on Sunday, Eating Out, japanese culture, etc. Just hit me up :) Soy de Phoenix, Arizona terminado mi carrera en Guadalajara, Mexico. Mi carrera es de Ing. de Sistemas Computacionales y ya mero termino :) Mis interestes incluye animales, anime, concinar, video juegos, andar en mi bici (domingo), salirendo a comer, cultura japonese, etc. Preguntarme cuando quieres :) Idiomas/Languages I Speak ENG-ESP-日本語(a little, un poco) Let's Chat. A coffee or something.... Platicamos. Un cafe o algo....
Richard
53 • Oaxaca de Juárez, Oaxaca, Mexico
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Religion: No religion
Living in Mexico
He decidido vivir en México y estoy eligiendo una ubicación. Soy de los Estados Unidos. Soy dueño de una firma de ingeniería y abogados y tengo mucho tiempo para divertirme, viajar y descansar. Estoy buscando una mujer hermosa que pueda ser una compañera de viaje, amante y amiga. I have decided to live in Mexico and am choosing a location. I'm from the United States. I own an engineering and law firm and have a lot of time for fun, travel and leisure. I'm looking for a beautiful woman who can be a travel companion, lover and friend.
Gunnar
39 • La Paz, Baja California Sur, Mexico
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Religion: No religion
Caribbean sole I can barely control
Professional captain. Masters of business degree. Athletic and outgoing. I spend my days seeking adventure and adrenaline. I have traveled all over the world by boat and plane gather stories. Let’s go make some new ones. Ever wanted to sail around the world?
Norman
68 • San Miguel de Allende, Guanajuato, Mexico
Seeking: Female 45 - 65
Religion: No religion
Divertido, intelligente, amable, romantico.
Living in Mexico 20 yrs, I'm a Gringo Mexicano always trying to improve my quality of life. Love to cook for my lady or take her out for food I can't cook. Exercized all my life I'm in good shape. Love romantic music, cine's, reading novels, travel. Love finding ways to make my lady love me more. It's all about making her happy!!
Narinder
46 • Cancún, Quintana Roo, Mexico
Seeking: Female 27 - 44
Religion: No religion
No drama just good vibes...
I'm from London England. Unfortunately don't speak Spanish yet. Loving, sensitive and confident man. Old fashioned value's, I love to travel and live in Mexico due to my work. Love good food. I absolutely love to cook and the beach, Netflix j
adolfo
56 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 28 - 57
Religion: No religion
una sola razon para vivir,con una sola basta
El hombre diseña su codigo de etica y conducta en estricto apego al bien,con el gobierna sus actos y decisiones y deslinda con objetividad y justicia sus jerarquias y prioridades.La tranquilidad y placidez de su concienca son el mejor nutrimento para su alma(brizzien-yutbe)
Alon
48 • La Paz, Baja California Sur, Mexico
Seeking: Female 24 - 42
Religion: No religion
¡risa, buena comida y baile!
Soy un ateo liberal, abierto, en forma, juguetón, inteligente, rizado, apasionado, compasivo y de orientación espiritual. Nací en Israel, crecí en California y pasé gran parte de mi vida adulta en Colorado. El pasado mes de mayo empaqué mi apartamento en Colorado, guardé todo y comencé a viajar. Ahora soy lo que se conoce como nómada digital: alguien que viaja por el mundo y trabaja de forma remota a través de Internet. Soy un programador que adora trabajar en cafeterías. Pasé los primeros cuatro meses viviendo en el Reino Unido, España e Israel, luego volví un poco a Estados Unidos y ahora estoy en Baja México. He estado estudiando el estilo tai chi de Chen, (el arte marcial, no el ejercicio), durante cerca de veinticuatro años. Es mi práctica y forma de arte. ¡Disfruto andar en bicicleta, nadar, caminar de vez en cuando, y realmente amo bailar! Salgamos en una cita casual y simplemente disfrutemos de conocernos. ¿Alguien se prepara para tomar un café o unlatera copa o ir a bailar? :)
Lorne
40 • Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, Mexico
Seeking: Female 22 - 38
Religion: No religion
Wanderlust seeking spanish lessons
medicine maker, green thumb practitioner, permaculture ambitions, biodynamic conscious, US born/raised. Lived abroad last 7 yrs. Australia, New Zealand & Bali 6'2, single, never married, no kids. bulldog Taro is my ride or die,
Sasha
37 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 21 - 36
Religion: No religion
Help me to discover Mexico City
Visiting from Canada, looking for someone to show me the Mexico City. I have very basic Spanish skills, but willing to learn. Discovering new things, learning new skills, and having new experiences is what I am passionate about. I have a spirit of Jack Kerouac, Indiana Jones (and I used to be a university teacher/researcher for some time), or Captain James Cook (but with a happy end, please).
Jeff
51 • Acapulco de Juárez, Guerrero, Mexico
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Religion: No religion
Serious man wants love of his life
I have retired early as engineer, will start internet business. Want to enjoy life for a few years first. I am staying in ACA, MX and want to move to MX next year. I stay on the beach in penthouse with amazing sunsets every evening; it's so beautiful here! I would like to meet a woman that wants to travel with me, and go to many places. I am studying spanish, but do not speak or write well yet. I want to integrate and be part of MX.
Ryan
27 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 18 - 33
Religion: No religion
Welcome To My Profile, Stalker
Neuroscience student, full-time writer, former logistics manager, cross-continental hitchhiker, and perpetual traveler. Graduating with my BSc soon and will be finishing a BA in psychology before applying for PhD programs. In other words, I'm a nerd, albeit one with a nice motorcycle
Dave
42 • Playa del Carmen, Quintana Roo, Mexico
Seeking: Female 22 - 39
Religion: No religion
Looking for a friend and a partner
Hello my name is Dave I've lived in Mexico 11 yrs and love the place, I'm from new Zeland and love to travel I'm ex military and I have a drive to do my things in life,you only live once I'm very active and love sports from the water to the jungle I'm looking for a friend and a partner as your partner should be your best friend that you can talk about anything
Daniel
33 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 19 - 33
Religion: No religion
Hola
Well ... a little of my.....I love a good talk before a good desmadre, I am romantic and tasteless. I am proudly fool and hardly I am satisfied with something. agnostico, left thought. I like to speak of religion, politics and pendejadas. I love the black humor. And I love the movies and travel. I have my own business and apart from i have a job. My mother is crazy but i love, my apdre exists and dicilmente was, I did not blame me neither complicated the existence by the past, I want to live happy. I am very intelligent and i have a heart a little dicky. I have the romantic idea that a girl somewhere is for me and then piojito....
casi
74 • Salvatierra, Guanajuato, Mexico
Seeking: Female 55 - 67
Religion: No religion
No Problem
HiI am a liberal minded, spiritual individual. Good friends, good family and like life in general. I am quite active but enjoy my alone time. Walking, reading, music and movies. I enjoy good company and good conversation, trivial to earth shattering. Not a very complex person and try not to make complicated things. I enjoy golf, dancing and am knowledgeable about many things but I do not know it all. I am well spoken and friendly. I have found some hidden talents in art and sculpture and enjoy them immensely. I have moved to San Miguel de Allende, Mexico 5 years ago from Toronto, Canada and have found my wonderful niche in the world .. I am looking for someone to complement my life, do not complicate it. If you are of like mind, we should meet.
Pablo
37 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 21 - 36
Religion: No religion
Awesome guy, totally worth getting to know!
There are so many things I find interesting, I love learning about stuff, reading, travelling, and mostly the usual. I am a great conversationalist, but can't avoid always trying to fix things. Usually you will find I'm in a good/great mood.
Juston
43 • Tijuana, Baja California, Mexico
Seeking: Female 23 - 39
Religion: No religion
Looking for my better half.
Im eazy going. Love the out doors. i ride a bycicle alot, and take my dogs to the park. im 6 foot tall browm hair. im in shape. ive done some traveling, would like to do alot more. i have no kids. i would like some some day. just waiting for the right one.
trent
57 • Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico
Seeking: Female 46 - 51
Religion: No religion
Are you the one?
I consider myself to be kind, caring, loyal, and funny! love to dance, go to movies, travel, and explor.I live 4 to 6 months a year in Canada, the rest in Lake Chapala, Jalisco, Mexico! Thanks for reading my profile. Good luck in your search for love!! Don’t give up!😀
Rafael
53 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 35 - 60
Religion: No religion
busco a alguien que quiera vivir, vivir y vivir
Note: I'll leave you my profile although i believe that is not the ideal place, for I have seen that almost all of them are single, separated, widowed or divorced, i go to that club within not too long, but good is left, by if anyone cares. Thank you for reading my profile, if you're already here, please read it completely: I am married, I have 47 years. I have a marriage of 10 years that has become of role, but that I can't leave now and a daughter that meets 8 exceptional this year. I have never been unfaithful although i apportion otherwise, I have no reason to lie here. This is the first time that I rely on a site of this nature. Work on my own, I live in the south of DF, Coyoacán, polite, intelligent, educated, quite fun and personable, body ... say that well! 1.72 Height, hair between cano , (still looks black) haha. Graphic Designer by profession and with graduate studies in marketing and studies of Kabbalah, metaphysical and occult sciences(they are told as well that have not come to light). Free thinker and respectful of any religion or political stance, sexual, and spiritual. I like to read, the movies, out to enjoy the nature, of course reflect, study, talk about any topic, travel, i love cooking, i have had three restaurants, etc. , I am not a wealthy individual if that is what you are looking for and please chavitas do not lose your time!
Larry
59 • La Paz, Baja California Sur, Mexico
Seeking: Female 24 - 48
Religion: No religion
Single fun healthy man looking to meet single lady
I live 8 months per year in La Ventana. In the summer I live in the U.S. I like many outdoor activities, hiking, mountain biking, camping, exploring, and kiteboarding. Recently became single and am looking to meet someone to practice Spanish and travel.
Ben
67 • Rosarito, Baja California, Mexico
Seeking: Female 45 - 65
Religion: No religion
American man in Baja/ Gabacho en Baja
Muy inteligente, pero con muchas faltas. Escritor, editor. Entusiasmo para la musica clasica, mascotas (perros, gatos, loros). Tambie'n el pickleball y el gym. (no sabes lo que es pickleball? Voy mostrarte.) Tratare' merecerte. Sera' bastante? Prefiero mujer libre para viajar. Si tu ya tienes hijos en casa, y no vives cerca de mi', seri'a muy difi'cil para nosotros. No deseo a "mariposas," colibris, ni siquiera murcie'lagas. Deseo a una mujer que sepa lo que desee, y que tenga ambos pies en el suelo, que ama con fuerza. Y que es totalmente honesta, aun cuando es dificil. Especialmente cuando es dificil. Debes ya tener fuerte deseo para el sexo. Si solamente deseas un buen amigo, no sirve. Claro que vamos ser amigos cerquisimos. Pero no es bastante. Esta's sonriendo en tu foto? Por lo menos, tienes una "chispa" en tus ojos? Si esta's frunciendo, como vas a atraer a varones asi'? Has leido tu propio perfil? Hay perfiles con muchos errores. Aun hay mujeres que han deletreado sus propios nombres incorrectos. Tambie'n hay muchos que no han cumpluidos sus perfiles. Si es demasiado trabajo para ti' hacerlo, co'mo vas estimular mi intere's? Eres mas que tus fotos, no? Si tu dices que fumes, no te considero, aunque puede ser error. Che'calo, por favor. Y por favor, no gorditas. Te parezco exigente? Quiza' soy. Intento compartir contigo todo que tengo, spiritual y material y emocional. Debes hacer compromiso conmigo, ademas con ti misma, igual. Por supuesto eso requiere bastante tiempo. Pero si no puedes comprometerte en largo plazo, por largo plazo, que lastima. Very intelligent, and very flawed. Writer, editor, classical music lover, animal lover (dogs, cats, parrots). I'll do my best to deserve you. Will it be good enough? I prefer a woman who is free to travel. If you still have children living at home, unless you live nearby, it would be very difficult for us.
john
76 • Puebla de Zaragoza, Puebla, Mexico
Seeking: Female 59 - 80
Religion: No religion
English man living in Puebla
i'm looking for the last love of my life i'm now living in Puebla pue i'm a fairly quiet person, i like traveling and also have various hobbies and interests, reading model making and longevity, cell rejuvenation. Increasing healthy lifespan. Still fit and virile.
John
69 • San Miguel de Allende, Guanajuato, Mexico
Seeking: Female 45 - 60
Religion: No religion
Are you funny and kind?
Hola! My Spanish is very basic. It would be better if you spoke some english please .. we can learn from each other. I have lived in Mazatlán, Puerto Vallarta, San Miguel de Allende and Queretero. I am currently living just north of Puerto Va
Hartmut
55 • San Cristóbal de Las Casas, Chiapas, Mexico
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Religion: No religion
the eye of an artist seeks its reflection
soy músico clásico, compositor, dibujo, escribo. Me gustan las plantas, el mar, la montana, la fuerza del silencio y de la naturaleza, la espiritualidad, le metafísica. La lectura. Me interesa mucho el descubrir algo como lo esencial de la vida, o de lo que esta atrás, que nunca tiene fin. no soy dentro de una religión, pero NO soy ateo. Me interesa el tema de las almas viejas.
juan
40 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Religion: No religion
apasionado
I am very loyal, i like the practical things, when something i really like i am very passionate, i like dancing, walking holidays and exploring new places as much as possible, i am very good and professional in my work, and only i am thinking of improve myself striving
Miguel
36 • Mexico City, Ciudad de México, Mexico
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Religion: No religion
PRINCPE EN BUSCA DE SU PRINCESA...
I am A Chiko Active, Good Wave, I Love The Extreme Sport, The Cars, The Motorcycles, The Movies, Also I Love to Read, AND accustom to Write, If Mean Of Nickname Mickey. ..Me Charms to Travel.. I they Like a lot of The Kisses, The Hugs, I Am A Boy Centered, Trabajadador. ...Y Me Effort Each Day But By Surpassing me…. Me Likes to Walk For All Places Learning New Things, New Customs. And to Make Friends. …...Te Would Like to Know me?
David
69 • Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, Mexico
Seeking: Female 40 - 56
Religion: No religion
Looking for a brilliant, loving woman
I’m a Producer/Director/Writer/Screen Writer/Actor for Theatre/Film/TV, or was, among so many other things, back in the San Francisco Bay Area. No, I'm not famous and I don't expect to be...but, hey, it can happen! I've written several screenplays and my first one is now a movie in distribution. I’ve been living in Puerto Vallarta since July 2011. I speak English, but would love to learn to speak Spanish. You may find this all a bit forward or strongly worded. I prefer to think of is as complete. I’ve taken all the self-awareness tests they offer on many of these sites. They were all very useful. I learned from them. From them I learned these things about myself. I’ve read too often, looking at what many men post in their profiles, like “you must be no taller (shorter) than… and have a bust size of …” It’s kind of creepy. I’m just looking for someone who likes me exactly as I am right now, and I will like her exactly as she is too. It’s a very healthy, happy feeling when you have that in a relationship. So, with this long dissertation, I’m hoping to clearly define who I am, what I think, and how I think, so that someone among you will think, “Hmm, I’d like to meet this guy, as described.” Just to be clear; I‘ve been meeting women who think dating is the basis for developing more friendships. Actually, being friendly is the basis for friendship. If you’re “new to the dating scene,” then please know that dating, at least for me, is about actively looking to build a romantic relationship, in my case, a long-term (maybe, last-term) romantic relationship, here in Mexico, especially, or hopefully in PV. I have relocated for love in the past. I could again. I “go out” with my friend Kevin, or my friend Kathy…but we don’t go out on dates. When you go out on an initial ‘coffee date’ in reply to a posting like this, I hope it’s to determine if you want continue with a next date, and then another date, and so on, until you decide to build a romantic, loving relationship or not, and either outcome is perfectly ok. In fact, that’s the whole idea. Dating to find friends is disappointing and misleading. Want new friends? Be friendly. Start talking to the people around you; your neighbors, your work mates, the people you see every day …just start to engage them and you will find plenty of friends you won’t have to get all dressed up for. So, I’ve written this post to find a likeminded person interested in a relationship, ultimately, a complete romantic, life changing, loving, long-term relationship. I already have many, many wonderful friends, male and female, here in PV, and back in New York, California, Washington State, and elsewhere. That said, here comes politics and religion. Though it sounds a bit rant-like, I'm not out to change the world or you. It's just what i believe. My politics are to the left. I’m not a liberal nut case, but I do believe that, to act as a responsible human being, requires that you act responsibly to all other humans and to the world you live in. For this reason, I believe the U.S. health care system is a greed based, irresponsible, if not morally bankrupt, system. I also believe that the Republican Party is corrupt to the core…they care not one jot for people. They claim they know how to make money, but all they do is take money. I was once a registered Republican, but now they lie with such impunity and unfaltering unity, that I find them disgusting, and all their members, and I mean all of them, down to the creationist creeps and up to the money changers at the top, are either equally corrupt, or very stupid. Theologically, I believe there is only one reason to do Good; it is because doing Good is good to do. The world is full of good people who do good, and evil people who do evil, but getting good people to do evil requires religion. Rationality is my religion; justice, acceptance, and reason are my gospels. I’m I disapprove of abortion in my life, but I will bear arms to defend any woman’s right to choose for herself; I mean, if I weren’t for supporting gun control. I don’t believe in an omnipotent, pedophilic, invisible uber-being from outer space, and I think that angels, crystal powers, psychic/astrological/mystical time, space, and thought manipulations, including the ‘Secret’ and its central-power-of-the-universe clearing house system, are all utter nonsense; they are the excuses the weak use to escape blame for their own poor judgment and low self-esteem. Religions, and other made up alternative dogma, are the lazy man’s way of avoiding personal responsibility for his own creations. Your only real, personal, lord and savior, is you. Yet, there is something to be said about the laying of the hands that can cause …well, you know. By now you’ve guessed, “Yes, he’s definitely an atheist.” I know that my personal sense of morality is not based on the selfish greed for eternal reward or fear of eternal punishment, but is actually an innate element of living as a natural human being, as part of the social consciousness within which we have all evolved. As with all life on earth, I think we’re an electro-chemical process and, as all such processes do, we emit energy, we radiate, and can, therefore receive, read or sense, and react to the radiated fields of others. It may be, that when you are in the field of another, and it feels good, that that is the ‘chemistry’ we are looking for. So, I do believe in the stream of levels of the persona… from our own ultra-conscience down to the intellect operating in each of our cells, but I see no need to appraise them as spiritual. I think that from all this we create our own identity, the ‘character in charge’ that we present to the world, and that it is possible to review, repair, or update that identity. (i.e. Self improvement is possible and I do my best to do that.) I believe nothing in nature is not from nature. There is no reason to expect that anything in nature be of a super-nature. And so, my point is, please be an atheist. You don't have to be one of those ranting, hateful types...they seem to be no less "dogmatic" than their loony opposites. Just note that if you are among the superstitious, it will eventually grate you that you know I think such beliefs are silly. That’s just the way it is. Yet, I do love Christmas. I even have my own handmade nativity set (from my Mom) which I’ve liked to view on Holiday morns, and tickle the baby’s tummy, rhetorically cooing, “Who’s a good little god. Huh? Who’s a good little god.” (Use long ooo’s in the word good. It makes it more fun.) I think the entire world should spend a short season each year to share some love and gifts with each other. I’m an energetic 61. Am I fit? If you mean wrestle a bear to the ground...yea, I'm fit. If you mean skinny jogger type, then... no, that's not me. I weight train. I'm solid, but lightly padded; 5’10, 204Lbs, 52” chest, 36” waist, and 16” biceps, if that means anything to you. As is everything else I am saying, this is a true statement: I’m always judged to be 45 in my appearance. I’ve had to show my DL many times to prove my age. I look that age. I live that age. I love at that age, but with far more knowledge and awareness. I’ll say it's my brain and my heart that you will learn to love. We may, or may not, strike a flame, but I’ll be intrigued by your thoughts and would like to meet your mind. As for you, be healthy and care for yourself and your appearance. Cleanliness is next to… well, you know. Within the realm of rational, you can be almost any age, tall, short, skinny or not, I don’t care. Just be aware, and full of fun, and full of enough energy, stamina, and willingness to try to keep up. I’ll never leave you behind and I’ll ask you do the same for me. Because I love the ancient Greeks, I think we should agree on this: Eros and Agape, (Sex and its twin, Unconditional Love) are so much more amazing when conjoined. Though we may be slowly approaching the final resting place of the souls of the heroic and virtuous, we will not view that ‘eternal plain’ as our goal, but rather, that it is the very last damn thing we must do, enjoying every single step and luscious moment along the way, till there are none left but the one. If you understand this, then we should really talk... I like you a lot already. We’ll learn much from each other. I really do want a real, long-term, loving relationship. That doesn’t mean I want a “let’s get married right now,” live-in relationship. In fact, I’m really not interested in ‘getting married’ in the legal, entangled, paperwork sense of it. I believe whatever you have created in your life is yours, and I want no part of your stuff or property. I just need to know who my other half is, and when and where we will get together for the things we need and want from each other, and for each other. I’m looking for someone who knows and loves herself as much as I will... and I will. You must enjoy PDA, long, warm, heart-felt kisses, and can make and maintain a deep connection of the body, mind and spirit. If you are aware of your ultimate Sexual self, or want to be, we’ll have more fun than ever. There should be room in our intimacy for joy and real exploration and exchange. I’ll shower with you, wash you, hold you close under the flow of warm water, caress you and love you…every single day. We’ll sleep the whole night in each other’s arms and wake with your head on my shoulder, your breath on my cheek; ourselves entangled, head to toe. This is the love and tenderness I’ll love to share with you. I will also share all duties. I cook well. I clean thoroughly, though not at all a neat freak. I do laundry, I take out the garbage, sweep, mop, and do dishes. I garden under guidance, though your plants’ lives may be at risk. I just don’t keep a scorecard. If it needs to be done, it should get done. Of course, I currently live as a bachelor, so my home-alone standards do slip as other projects take focus from time to time. …OK, most of the time. If you prefer something being done a certain way, and I don’t have any ‘druthers about it, then we’ll do it your way. I expect the same respect in return. If the above describes how you would love to be loved, how you would love to love another, and you know that you are actually able to accept and give this love, then you are who I’m looking for…we could be a very good match. I’m a true, in the flesh, romantic man. I mean every word you see here. If you’ve read the book “Attachment,” I test out as a Stable, but an Avoidant would see it as a possible anxious personality, because Stables like to please their lovers. I won’t set out to make your happiness my life’s goal, but you will find that I am the easiest guy in the world to get along with. I do my very best to think before I react. I approach all issues with the goal of understanding, first, then seeing what makes sense to get back to happiness. I’m not into any spectator sports; what a small group of hyperthyroid men do to each other in the middle of a grassy knoll is of little interest to me. I’m an open book, easy to read, and I’m comprised of many, many chapters. You will enjoy turning the pages. The attached picture is from a painting "The Kiss," my favorite painting in all the world. It is the perfect example of how a kiss should begin. By the way, I’m as straight as an arrow and all man. I’m totally unattached and have absolutely no lingering emotional baggage. I’m not bi-Sexual, but if you are, so be it. I don’t judge, neither do I reject. My love comes with my full acceptance of who you are. If you reveal your true self to me, I will never ask you to change. You’ll have all the space and support you’ll need to be exactly yourself. I want the same for myself as well. I’m not a couch potato, but I do stay in now and then, so if your idea of a good time at home would be to catch a buzz and feature on my video projector, then we stand a good chance of having a lot of fun just being at home together. I’m 420 friendly, but I’m not an abuser. I like Tullamore Dew, but will accept Bushmill’s. I’ve taken a fancy to Tequila on the rocks since living here. I believe in all of these in moderation in my partner and myself. I have never struck a woman in anger, and I never will. I want to travel with you, lightweight, hostel style. I have a 22 year old Chevy van, modified with a full size bed for camping style fun, touring around Mexico. Of course, I won’t object to 5-Star accommodations, but they’re not in my budget. If they’re within your budget, well that’s ok, but please know it’s not something that I can afford to keep up with. In fact, if you need 3 suitcases, 4 pairs of shoes, and a giant sack of hair product and makeup, just to get away for the weekend, then you should rethink this. I’d like, at times, to decide together that we should rent a furnished apartment in some off the beaten path part of Europe, Asia, or South America, and actually ‘live there,’ immersed in the culture, for 3 to 6 months, then come back to our base in PV or elsewhere. You should be a mid- to tough traveler. Can you bear to fly stand-by? How’s your real-life spontaneity and flexibility? Life is too short to waste dreaming about things and places… just figure it out as best you can and do it. I’ve learned that from my son. He’s brilliant. One last important point; as I explained, I’m an artist type… a bohemian, identified as a true renaissance man, in fact. I have an adequate, and consistent income that meets my needs, which I sometimes supplement with my art. I do a lot of free favors for a lot of people. From personal counseling to hard labor; I love it. Though some may question my motives, I do them because it feels good to do them; because doing good is good to do. Oh, but I do find I am invited to more pool parties these days. If you consider any of this at all, please consider all of it very carefully. Life at our stage is growing shorter, faster, by every day. We have all the time there is, but it’s all the time we have. Neither of us should waste the precious time of the other. We should be painfully earnest with each other and with our self. I know this will not appeal, at all, to the vast majority of you women out there, but I have no interest in most of you for a life partner either. I'm just looking for one of you. You must know if it is you. What I mean is, don’t wish it was you, or think that it might be you, or could be you. Please know it is you; that this is who you already are; the kind of person that would really like to meet, and maybe love, a guy like me. I prefer to chat by phone and/or over coffee/tea/wine/tequila. If you enjoyed reading this, you know too, that it's pretty easy to write brilliant emails that delve the depths of our philosophical realms, but I find genuine two-way conversation is so much more fulfilling, and informative. If you want to chat, send a note and a recent pic. I would like to see who I'm chatting with. I have Skype with Video. My contact info will follow. I certainly would like to know more about you. I know this is a very ridiculously long read. Thanks for making the effort. It’s a good sign that you’re willing to work for what you seek. Hope to hear from you soon. Coolness ensues.

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