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GJ
60 Fredericksburg, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
Thanks for stopping by and reading my profile : ) If you’re wondering what drew me to this site, here’s the story in brief... From winter 2015 to spring 2017, I met and fell in love with an intelligent, beautiful, and vivacious woman from Brasilia who was here in the states on-and-off visiting her sister (my friend, who set us up : ). Liane was everything I’d ever looked for in a companion, and she told me repeatedly that I was everything she ever wanted in a man. For those two years, I was the happiest man on the planet, and I think she would have told you she was the happiest woman. She used to call me her "piece of a bad road," and then smile knowingly at me. In April, 2017, again while she was here visiting her sister, we decided we couldn’t live without one another and I asked her to marry me--she said yes!! She then returned to Brasilia to inform her family and friends, who were also very happy for us. When I got home from work on 25 April, 2017, I tried calling her--something I did every day about that time. The phone went to voicemail. I called several more times over the course of the next two hours. Then suddenly, my phone rang, it was her sister’s husband, who was also a good friend of mine. He asked if I was sitting down. I said, “Matt, just tell me.” He broke down on the other end, saying, “Liane is dead. It was a car accident...they think she was killed instantly.” That call began a year of incredible personal darkness--despite the support of friends and family--and a loneliness more hollowing than anything I could have imagined possible. I’ve come out on the other side a sadder and a wiser person. But I’m here. Throughout my love affair with Liane, she immersed me in Brazilian culture--something she was very proud of--and the Portuguese language (although most of it didn’t stick--I just loved hearing her speak it : ) And so I’m here, because I think only a Brazilian woman possesses the qualities I’m looking for in a companion: beauty, intelligence, grace, spirituality, humor, style, vivacity, and a discrete vanity (Liane loved to look good and I loved being seen with her : ). I’m not trying to replace Liane, that’s not possible. She was an incredibly bright light and powerful spirit, and she’s were she is supposed to be now. Anyway, I’m not the same person she knew either, having gone through her loss. What I’m looking for is yet another bright spirit from your incredible country. And I thought I’d start my journey here! I'm not sure if this matters, but my personality has been tested out as an INFJ--Introvert, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging--meaning I tend to be predictable. I have also read The Five Love Languages, and I am definitely a physical touch lover: I express myself through physical contact and feel love through the physical contact of the person I am with. I am definitely looking for a woman for whom those characteristics are attractive. I was a teacher for almost twenty years before leaving ten years ago to become an educational specialist developing training and education products. I love my job and I am planning on continuing in this field--and, at some point, possibly going back into teaching. Thanks for reading! If I sound like someone you would like to get to know better, contact me : )

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