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Werner (64) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 2241704
Köln, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 23 - 45
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: High School
Have children: Yes - don't live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian - Catholic
Occupation: Technical / Science / Engineering

I think that there are cultural differences between our countries , in the ways that men and women relate, and personality differences from men here and in your country, which can be good, but also take some understanding from both sides I think, what do you think? I think that for a successful rela...read more >>

I think that there are cultural differences between our countries , in the ways that men and women relate, and personality differences from men here and in your country, which can be good, but also take some understanding from both sides I think, what do you think? I think that for a successful relationship people must be best friends, and truly want to support each other, if they are only really interested in what the other person can give them, and not in the person themselves, then it will not work, because one day you will find the person whom you really love just for the person that they are. I think that attentiveness and kindness is required, and having common goals to achieve in life, it may be that one person supports the others goals more, but as long as both are truly happy with this. I think that people should not let affection dry up in their relationship, and never go to sleep with bad feelings or thoughts about each other, any problems should be talked about and then kiss and make up: ) so that you will start each day feeling happy, positive and motivated about your life. What vision have you of your intended husband and of your couple ? As for my vision to see a couple, it is especially based on the education that gave me my parents . For me , my woman will be my equal, wife and husband are the single whole. They should love , care and respect each other, being good friends, lovers, listeners and advisers to each others ! Two people who are in love with each other must do everything together without saying: it's your duty or this should do only woman or only man it is not questions that she made only the thankless tasks of a house, it is the thing which we can make for two. i want you to know my point about my beloved and my future family. A man want a girl that give him always love, sweetness, care, sensuality, surprises and also woman want to have a man for this. A man want it because he is like a child…he likes very much that someone takes care of him. A real woman knows it… she knows that the man can’t organize all in the same time. He likes very much a guide for him. The real woman knows that if doesn’t want to lose him must to be present in his life…in all moments… Now a lots of woman don’t want it or don’t want to give it but they want only to take. They want a man that must to be able in all. A man must to know all their needs…because only their needs are important. She should work… she should see her friends… she should do others things and when in evening together come back home it’s possible that she says that she’s tired…she wants to sleep…she doesn’t want to talk… And there are men that don’t have respect for their girls too… but a woman should try to be a real woman for him and would not be tired when he need this or we would be tired together, offcourse its also the same intention of the man she knows that a man wants love, care, surprises. He wants a girl that loves her beauty…her womanish ness…. that take care of herself and give him a lots of attentions. In a family is very important the role of the woman. I think that the role of the woman is essential for a family. She should control and take care of Childs education, the house economy. If a family is strong, very unite, beautiful and shining this depend on only by the woman. She has the capacity to control different things together, woman can't do this all just course of her wish, for this she need to love and she need to be loved by her man and a real man know this all and should do any effort to respect this and should show her this in any kind of way and should be able to express his feelings to his woman. the most men don't recognize this or don't want to confess this because they could be hurt in to be not a strong man or to be weak. maybe its my life experience why i have this views but if i try to remember back my views where not much different in the past only some things i understand now much, much better and whats your opinion? ?

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About Werner

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 64 23 - 45
Lives in: Köln, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany Any
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Black Any
Hair length: Short Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Brown Any
Eye wear: Glasses Any
Height: 5'11" (180 cm) 4'9" (145 cm) - 5'7" (170 cm)
Weight: 88 kg (194 lb) 40 kg (88 lb) - 66 kg (145 lb)
Body style: Athletic Petite, Slim, Average, Full Figured
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: My Personality Any
Body art: Prefer not to say Any
Appearance: Attractive Very attractive, Attractive, Average
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Any
Marital Status: Divorced Any
Have children: Yes - don't live at home Any
Number of children: 1 Any
Oldest child: Older than 18 Any
Youngest child: No Answer Any
Want (more) children: No Any
Have pets: Cat Any
Occupation: Technical / Science / Engineering Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: €30.001 - €60.000 EUR Any
Home type: Apartment / Flat Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: Belgium Any
Education: High School Any
Languages spoken: Dutch German
English ability: Very Good Fluent, Very Good, Good
Spanish ability: No Answer Any
Religion: Christian - Catholic Any
Religious values: No Answer Any
Star sign: Cancer Any
Personal 
Bust cup size: N/A B, C, D, DD, E, F+, DDD
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Family, Movies / Cinema, Reading, Shopping, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Entertainment, Watching Sports
Food: French, German, Greek, Indian, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum
Music: Classical / Opera, Dance / Techno, Pop, Rock, Soft Rock
Sport: Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Swimming

she should be able to show her feelings and be not afraid to live them out. affection, tenderness, attention all important things for a relation but from both sides and more for the woman she knows she is beloved. maybe i am looking for someone special or maybe it is to much what i ask but to answer...read more >>

she should be able to show her feelings and be not afraid to live them out. affection, tenderness, attention all important things for a relation but from both sides and more for the woman she knows she is beloved. maybe i am looking for someone special or maybe it is to much what i ask but to answer your question about what would be my happiness so here you have my answer, is this to much? ? ? to look forsomeone who truly knows what she wants. Someone whose eyes would spark when she sees me. . Someone who would make me feel loved even without a touch. . which is still very important for me though. . . who would understand me even without words. . who would love, care and respect me the way I would feel for her. . Someone I would give all my love and tenderness to. . Someone who would cherish the feelings we have for each other and be able to comprehend my heart by his own. . Someone who would appreciate my heart, my mind and my soul. . my simply being myself, and who would care, having my heart in his hands I'm looking for a woman who knows what true love is about, a woman who isn't afraid to show her feelings; romantic, who loves being surprised. . Someone daring and capable of doing some crazy things for the man she loves. . Someone loving and caring, gentle and devoted, faithful and understanding. woman, best friend, lover. I mean each word what I've just said. I want a real and meaningful relationship and i hope it is not to much.

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